Stephen Oldham

Stephen Lawrence Oldham

Saturday, May 4th, 1957 - Saturday, March 20th, 2021
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Stephen Lawrence Oldham, 63, of Macon, Georgia passed away Saturday, March 20, 2021. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date.

Born in Tucson, Arizona, he was the son of the late William Marshall Oldham and Toby Martinez Olivas. He was a retired grocery manager with Kroger on Hartley Bridge Road but after retirement he returned as a grocery clerk for Kroger at the Forsyth Road location.

Mr. Oldham was a member of the Cherokee Heights Baptist Church, when it was on Napier Ave. He was preceded in death by his brother, Mike Oldham and sister, Jessica Olivas.

He is survived by his wife of 34 years, Cindy Oldham, children, Sloane Ivey (Jared), and Philip Oldham. Grandchildren, Knowles and Lawton Ivey; Siblings, Jimmy Oldham, Bella Adams, Barbara Oldham, Patrice Garza and Eric Olivas.

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Fairhaven Funeral Home and Cremation Services has charge of arrangements.
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Leah Smith

Posted at 05:28pm
Dear Cindy, I just found out about Steve and am so heartbroken for all of you. I am so sorry I didn't know sooner. My prayers and love to all of you. Leah Smith

Bella Adams

Posted at 01:39pm
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Bella Adams Posted at 06:04pm

Losing my brother Steve, is the worst thing that has ever happened to me. I am so heartbroken and sad. It’s devastating and I feel gutted. I can’t believe he’s gone. I loved him so much. I hope he knew how much he was loved by everyone. Let your loved ones know that you love them before it’s too late. Peace.

Bella Adams

Posted at 01:30pm
I am filled with overwhelming sadness at the loss of my beautiful brother Steve. My heart is broken, I can’t imagine a world without Steve in it. I can’t believe that he’s gone. Steve was the best person I’ve ever known. He was honorable and fair, you could always depend on Steve for help or to do the right thing. He was kind, loving, generous, strong, brave and funny. Steve had a big personality and could delight you with his funny stories about our family, we had to come up with the code word “pineapples “ when we thought he was going to divulge our secrets to others, he knew where all the dead bodies were buried in a humorous manner of speaking; he was hilarious and often had us rolling with laughter at our youthful escapades. Most of all Steve’s gift was making you feel loved and cared about. I will miss all of his text messages, telling me good morning, telling me about his day and grandkids and most of all how much he triple loved all of us. I am blessed that I have years worth of text messages on my phone to look back on and reflect.
Steve was the glue that held our family together, he was the peacekeeper and the peacemaker. Now I feel that we are adrift without our anchor to hold us together.
I can’t imagine how hard this must be for Cindy, Sloane and Philip, my heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your loss, it’s unimaginable. Please remember that we are here for you. God bless you all. With love, Bella Adams

Malcolm Cox

Posted at 04:27pm
Heck, I don't believe this. I have known him since the early '80s. I am just at a loss for words for a great friend and person. He will be missed.

Patrice galarza

Posted at 07:58pm
I wish to send my deepest condolences to Stephen’s family in Georgia. My thoughts and prayers have been with you every day. This is extremely painful in so many ways physically spiritually mentally and emotionally. Steve was a great man. He was everything i wanted to be. Strong, brave, honest, hard working, friendly, funny, lovable, kind, generous and loved by everyone. He will be greatly missed and I will never stop telling stories about him or how he was such an important part. Of my life his legacy will pass on with every memory and story told to our children an grandchildren Steve meant so much to all those who knew him Cindy, Sloane, Phillip, my heart goes out to you.. Steve is in heaven now right where he needs to be..
With all my heart and love
Patrice Galarza

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